It seems like all guys want me for is nudes or sex or hookups. I try to explain that the farthest I want to go is making out and when I mention that they seem to become uninterested. I mean how do I get a guy to like me for who I am instead of what I can do sexually? HELP!
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you have to try for different guys... Which I know can be tough. One of my best friends in the world is this girl, she is very tall, blonde, thin big boobs whatever you can think of. she is commonly referred to by my other friends as my 'tall blonde sexy German friend'. she has the same problem, she hates hookups and casual things. she likely has a date with a new guy almost every week, and it never goes beyond a second date because they are all as described by you- jerks, only interested in sex etc.
the real problem is, the guys who have the confidence to approach very attractive women are usually dicks. Where as more down to earth guys such as myself (I am by no means very attractive, just average but still level headed) either assume girls like that are dating someone, not interested in dating, or won't find them attractive enough to say yes, so why bother with the humiliation?
Just give it some time, I only recently discovered, with observing my friend, that a guy like me may actually have better odds with a girl like that because it is such a breath of fresh air. until then, all I can recommend is to ask guys out yourself, and don't wait to be approached. Also you are under 18, so just wait some as even guys such as myself at that age really aren't interested in girls as a relationships lol0