I like guys from every race (as long as I think they're cute) but I know people have certain preferences. Some people might not want to date outside their race or they might prefer a certain race over another. it's not necessarily racist just what their attracted to (like I said before preference). When i get crushes on guys who are not black my friends say "he probably doesn't date black girls". How can I tell if someone is willing to date outside their race? Am I supposed to yell "hey do you like black girls" or something lol. I just don't want to waste my time liking someone who probably wouldn't be interested.
Most Helpful Guy
Most people date within their own race because it is something they are typically comfortable with. It's a groping patter found in most people that has spanned the entire history of the planet. And even though the world has become so small with planes, cars, powered boats, even with the phone, radio, television and internet, people still cluster to their own groups. In college I worked with the international community and noticed that people from certain races or cultures or countries would group, even if they didn't like each other as people. I didn't completely understand it at first, but realizing that those shared interests of language, culture, and understanding seemed to make them feel connected easier than people of other races or cultures. As for knowing if someone is willing to date outside of their own race, this comes down to the individual. Try not to focus on the racial aspect so much as their own personal interest. If a guy is interested in you, he'll show that interest though body language, eye contact, and his need to speak with you. It would be a strange thing to see a guy go out of his way to ask a girl out only to stop her half through to tell her he's not interested in her race. Honestly, I feel that it isn't people who are into your race you should be worried about. It's people that are too much into your race you should steer clear of. Some of my friends only like Asian girls, and sometimes I ask them why they're dating. To which they reply, "Oh, cause she's Asian, and Asian's are hot." I get people have preferences, but don't date someone who only cares about your race, not you as a person. The same of a person who doesn't have any respect for your race, just you as a person. Find that person who can respect you as a person and have an enlightens understand that you are a (said) race, and that just adds to your character.
(Note: I don't want to offend anyone concerning this racial issue. This can be a hot button for some people and if I said anything offensively, I apologize head of time.)0
Most Helpful Girl
i guess one indication could be what kind of friends they have.0