My girlfriend is always confident and a great girl. One day i was joking around and i said "you must have gained weight, that dress doesn't fit you anymore" (when in reality she is fit and the dress still looks the same on her). Then she was like "serously? how fat do i look? should i take it off?". At this point i stoped joking around and told her that she looks the same as she did 3 months ago with that dress on. Like was what i did bad or something? it was a joke.
Are all girls sensitive?
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not sure if all girls are, but I do feel that every person has 1 thing that they are extremely sensitive about, that they don't even like people to joke about. For me, that would be my intelligence (I have a high IQ, but I also have a mild learning disability. It's my single biggest insecurity). For my best friend, she's extremely sensitive about how thin she is. She cries when people say things like "are you sure you're eating enough?"
Anyway, maybe you stumbled onto your girlfriend's soft spot by accident. Although I actually think MOST girls would take it personally if their boyfriend joked that they gained weight, lol.2
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Most Helpful Guy
It wasn't bad just a mistake.0