So I met this dude and we hit it off pretty well.. We saw each other quite a bit in a week and apparently he really liked me. After two weeks we ended up sleeping with each other. I'm not the type to sleep around or with a guy I'm just "seeing" but it felt right? I really liked him and I thought things would work out between us. We still saw each other a couple of times after but lately he's been super busy with work. We've been seeing each other less and less I feel like. It went from every week to every two weeks and now maybe even more. The problem is I'm starting to really like him and I don't know how he feels about me now. I feel like he already got ass so now he doesn't care-- like there's nothing to chase after. I don't know if I made a mistake sleeping with him. I'm starting to back off because I really don't want to get hurt. What's worst is he's not much of a texter at all. Like texting him has Always Sucked. He still messages me but the conversation doesn't go anywhere. Ugh anyways what's your opinion? Should I just pull away and see what happens?
I I think it's funny how he was one who really liked me at first and now I'm the one who reallys like him. I don't like to sleep around because I get emotionally involved.
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I kinda see two options here. You could just pretend you don't care and he will miss having you around. Or maybe he's a totally douchie bag and doesn't care. The other option is to be honest. Be like look Paco, I really like you and want to keep seeing you but if you don't feel the same Then I need to know if I'm wasting my time.0