I have absolutely no game when it comes to attracting guys and I need advice on what to do before the school year starts in 2 weeks. I have shitty confidence in myself and in my self esteem but no one knows that because I walk with my head high and keep a smile on my face. Every single one of my friends can get a boyfriend but no one will even look at me. I am in no way shape or form a nerd but I get good grades and respect people unlike most of the girls at my school who will disrepect someone like a teacher or administor in a heartbeat but those are the ones they seem to flock to like I don't understand it at all? What am I doing wrong? I'm not the best looking but some of the girls who they flock to are no better than I am when it comes to looks. (I know I have no place to say or even think that but I'm just wondering)
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Me too I have a same problem!! But more like I don't know what to say to girls who aren't friends. Anyways what I'm getting at is that don't sweat it. Honestly just forget about your lacking self-esteem/confidence. Trust me. I may not be the most experienced guy, but from what I can tell we share similarities haha sorry if that came out wrong (hope you don't take it personally) :(
What I'm trying to say is that when I did the thimg above, I got lucky hehe xD. I still, to this day still think less of myself when it comes to looks. The best thing you can do is just be who you want to be. Act the why you want dress the way you want. In my case I got lucky, real lucky and my girlfriend (now ex) asked me out!! So yeah... don't let it go to your head. Stay cool, calm, and collected. And be you!!!
Sorry if this is too long of a post xp but the moral of my story is just try not to think too much about your self-confidence issues. Hope this helps you get the guy in mind!!1