My girlfriend graduated hs. Lately she's been liking her ex-classmates friend status/post/pics a lot. Example he will write "I only want a down female that won't games" and she'll like that status. Another time my girlfriend took a pic of her new car and he said it was nice. My girlfriend then replied with a "yeah we should go for a spin soon". He then talked about how he was going to get a new car as well and put a custom turbo exhaust. My girlfriend then put the "in love emoji face and wrote i can't wait till i see it dude".
They don't hang out at all or text just online talk but this is exactly how cheating starts/ you see it in the movies. Could my girlfriend like this? it's almost as if guy is too blind to see it or either they are really good
Most Helpful Girl
Get off of social media! You are about to drive yourself crazy & ruin your relationship over nothing.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well, it's a tough one indeed, and it seems you are quite observant. Anyways how long have you been seeing these signs? days, or weeks?
There are two possibilities on one hand it's possible that by nature she is like that, and she is just being friendly with the other guy.
Second possibility is what you think, yes indeed a big thing like cheating starts from small things like this, and indeed if this proceeds towards cheating you'll see these signs becoming more prevalent, you'll start seeing them more often, she'll start talking to the other guy more than she talks to you, she'll even begin liking his company more than yours and it will become hurtful for you. It's scary isn't it. I am sorry I am just saying this is a possibility, I hope it never happens, but this is how it starts, yes you're right. Hence just continue to be observant and watch out for the signs, don't confront her or question her not as of now, just observe her.
Now if these signs stop after a few days then probably you have nothing to worry about, you can conclude she was just being friendly, but if it doesn't stop then it is not good and something big is on the cards, so be mentally prepared yourself if you were to face the situation (her cheating on you ), that is if it happens. Yes you're right some people are really good at hiding these things, but then how long can they hide, one day truth will be exposed, eventually.
Just beware and be watchful.0