If a girl mentions/casually says "I don't want a relationship" or "I don't want a boyfriend as of the moment" in a conversation with a guy who asked why she doesn't have a boyfriend, would that make him back off? or would he still try to pursue?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe and maybe not. Saying that casually can sound like you are throwing up a wall to him and he might even perceive it as sort of bitchy. If he is really in to you he will keep barking up your tree and take what he can get as long as you are willing to give something. A good way to say that you aren't particularly looking for a boyfriend is to add that you are willing to see how it goes and anything can happen, but you aren't seeking it out. That leaves it a little open ended and clarifies that you aren't personally throwing up a wall to him personally.0
Most Helpful Girl
yea if the guy was interested in a relationship and he the girls he has a crush on doesn't then he might move on0