So I met this girl on an online dating site, from the very beginning she was being very pushy for a date. I am about to move to the city she lives in. She came on really heavy and seemed very very clingy. I was kind of turned off by it but I didn't want to cut it off so I didn't hurt her feelings because she seemed really nice. Well today she started opening up about how much she hates dating because she's had bad experiences with it. She ranted about it, obviously something just happened but I didn't want to ask seeing as I've only really been talking to her for a week. Anyway she asked me if I was only interested in a friendship or more and I told her friendship because I didn't want to lead her on.
She keeps apologizing for hitting on me and I told her that I do like talking to her (which I do) but I feel really bad... She says she still wants to hang out and what not once I move there, which I agreed to. But I just felt like I kicked her while she was down and I feel bad... did I handle this correctly? I think it was the right move, better to do it now than later, but yea...
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah you did. Just try and stay being her friend because I was that girl at one point then the guy decided one day to stop talking to me. Hurt a lot.0