You have not had much luck in your love life, you have not found that perfect person who ticks all the boxes so you settle for the next best, you have been dating for a few months and have recently become a couple. After this time you meet someone else who ticks more boxes. Would you leave your current boyfriend/girlfriend to try and be with that new person ( who likes you), even though your currnet boyfriend/girlfriend really likes you and has done nothing wrong to warrant a break up? ( an example for leaving them for your prefered person would be that they are more physically attractive, have a better personality, better educated etc.
- Yes I would, I want what is best for myselfVote A
- No I wouldn't because I already have someone who came along before them, and im committedVote B
- I would date her behind my current boyfriend/girlfriends back so if it does not work out I still have someoneVote C
- otherVote D
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I find it sad how so many people (especially girls) go for "I want what is best for myself"
When you are in a relationship, you don't choose what's best for you; you choose what's best for the other person. Once you start thinking about yourself when in a relationship, that's already the end of it. Love relationships are other/us-centered, not self-centered.
Your current boyfriend doesn't tick all boxes? Tell him that and for sure he will make an effort to tick them FOR YOU (if he really loves you).. not for him. Tell him how he can love you more.
Just my take on it.1