Last night me and this girl just went to mcdonalds to eat and talk since it's been 2 months since we spoke. My girlfriend walked in but i did not notice her. Then i saw her and she came up to my our table and was like "what are you doing here?" i told her "just hanging out with jasmine since it's been a while". We need to talk now. I went outside and i asked why is she so mad, then she said something like how i should not be going out with someone past 9 pm and that she doesn't really like this girl and she thinks i was cheating on her. I kept telling her i was not cheating but simply talking with her, then my girlfriend left and told me not to talk to her.
Well who has the right in this one? Be honest? The most important thing is my girlfriend talking to me again. Today she only replied to one text, what more can i do? We've been together for a year and she never got this mad at me
Most Helpful Girl
I disagree with the girls and I don't think you did anything wrong at all. Obviously, this girl you were out with was a friend of yours that you've known for awhile, correct? If so, you're allowed to have friends and go out to dinner with them if you want to, even after 9pm because unless you're like 8 years old I don't think you have to home by a certain time. I'm all for honesty, I'm a very big stickler for it. So, maybe you could have told you're girlfriend you were meeting a friend for dinner but there in lies the question, which is... did you know you two were going to have dinner ahead of time, like this was planned thing or was this like a really last minute sort of thing?
If it was planned, you probably should have told her. If it was last minute, then I could understand how it could have slip your mind. Either way, I think you're girlfriend overreacted and you did nothing wrong. it's good for both parties to know where the other is going and have good line of communication and honesty. So, maybe you two should work on that. However, you were at McDonalds and I don't know too many cheaters that are dumb enough to take their mistress to fast food joint where everybody hangs out and you're bound to run into someone you know. So, I think that and how you were up front about everything when she confronted you, speaks you not being a cheater. So, you have nothing to prove. Just give her time.1
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Most Helpful Guy
1. In a relationship, who is right and who is wrong becomes irrelevant. It is a matter of what do you need to do to make your relationship work. If your girlfriend I pathologically jealous, you may need to do things to accommodate her unreasonable suspiciousness even though you have done nothing wrong.
2. You need to decide how important the girlfriend is and whether she is worth all of the accommodations you need to make for your life together to be good.
3. When deciding how much of her shit you are willing to put up with, remember that she puts up with your shit.1