Most Helpful Guy
Nope. Not stupid.
If it's going to bug you throughout a hypothetical relationship, why expose yourself to that?
Everyone has silly little sticking points and pet peeves. I can stand people who are passionate about something but refuse to even discus their opponent's point of view. As such I wouldn't even consider dating someone who I knew felt like that.
It's not biggoted, we just have different values.
And poor grammer is something which can be fixed, often by simply paying attention. It's not like you are refusing to date a guy because of the colour of his skin, or because he's balding. It's something he could do something about but is putting no effort in. It's no different from a guy showing up to a date at a posh restraunt in a pair of scruffy cut-off jeans and a t-shirt with pit-stains.1
Most Helpful Girl
Not at all. Im mean not dating him because of his grammer is dumb. On the other hand, lack of conversation is different. Just recently I was talking to this guy. We were both attracted to each other, but he would only start texting me when he want to see me. Or if and when he did he texts were just like a yes or no. That just irritated me, because it just made me think that he just wanted one thing from me. So I sent him a text expressing myself and yeah. I'm not seeing him anymore. Poor conversation means he's not interested but in one thing. Unless of course he has a busy schedule for not texting.1