Long story short my ex want to a wedding in cai about 2 months ago. Came back acting weird. She 9 yo than me and I'm 23. She got jealous that a lot of females hit on me, but I never once talked to other chicks or flirted back. I had a stalker that wouldn't leave me alone and she also got p*ssed about that. even though I blocked her in every way I could. I block her cell # she would change her # and still call and text to start drama.
She told me that she thinks that I can do better then her and since she got 3 kids and unemployed. She know that I use to want kids but since her tubes are tied she can't have anymore. I told her if I had to choose between her and me having kids I choose her, She says that, that's unfair to me . But I love her so much that I'm willing to not have any. Which is a lot for a man to give up. But I'm willing to because I'm happy with her and her kids already.
Well about 3 weeks ago I found on on accident that she was talking to a new guy. I ask her why she could tell me the truth str8 up and she said she didn't know how to. But the funny thing about that night was that she stay on the phone with me at his place for about 3 hours talking to me and she said that she loves me a few time in front of him.
Well three weeks have past and for the past 2 weeks she been talking to me on the phone at night from 12am to 6am. she also texts me if I don't talk to her for about a day. She checks my online accounts all the time and still emails me to see what I'm up to even though we talk on the phone almost every day. She also have her friends spy on me a lot and anytime I'm out and a girl gets to close to me she start to act crazy and like we are together.
About a week ago we got into an argument after sex and she told me that we were over. Don't talk or call anymore. I agreed even though it was hard and I stop talking. the next day she emailed me and texted me. I didn't respond. The follow day after that she texted me that she "hates the fact she misses me so much". I respond with "it does have to be like this, this is your choice not mines". and thing want back to the usual talking and text each day.
Well two days ago she want to Florida with the guy she talking to and refers to him as old boy. Considering she already know that I know who this guy is. But the funny thing is she didn't know that I knew she was with him but I did. because I got her in trouble for her texting me with him by forward a text she sent me saying "I love u".
Well while in Florida she texted me that she misses me and love me once per day. She also to me that she would call me to let me know she made it in safely. She did but did text me when she got back in town...I know that she at his place because he love a block away from my job.
So what the he! does this women want from me because she said she want to let me go but every time she thinks of me being with another women she cries. Can anyone tell what to do and what she thinking.
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Shes playing head games, if she wanted you, she wouldn't be with another guy.
Actions speak louder then words, drop all contact and move on. She is right, you have deserve better then her, but that's not why she said that. She was trying to let you down easy.
If she really thought you deserved better, would she bring it to your attention so you will leave her? No its a bs story, don't let her string you along. Ignore everything she says and don't contact her.
Go find some new poon with less baggage and drama.0