I like him but I felt like there was no spark. He took me for quite an expensive meal, and I did offer to split with him but he refused.
Is it only common decency to go on another date with him because he paid quite a bit?
Can chemistry develop with more dates?
Most Helpful Guy
Great question. Personally it would depend on how bad the met was. If I knew absolutely 100% without a single doubt this person is no good for me, then I would not go out no matter what they spent. In general, I would try at least a couple of dates to determine if was something was there. First dates are hard to judge people with. Many people try too hard, some are way too nervous, so therefore it can be hard to find the real you. Not only that but most people are pretty complicated and have many layers to them that simply cannot be discovered with one date. So I would go on a second date. If it doesn't work out, then you can walk away totally guilt free that you tried your best and equalized the money spent.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well, i would try to give him another chance if i believe it could work out between us. First dates aren't always the best cause everything feels awkward and he was probably nervous... but don't feel obliged to do anything you don't want to.1