i always thought the normal thing for a guy to do is this:
1. once in a long while, i am talking no more than 2-3 times a year, he will come across a girl he likes who is available to him, and after some interaction, she doesn't mind his company
2. he will see her as a potential girlfriend, ask her out for a few dates, then soon they have sex then become a couple, or become a couple then have sex, or nothing happens and they break it off or become friends
3. if it works out the guy will stay with that girl, until it doesn't work anymore, either they cheat or it just doesn't work
4. then they guy move on and wait for the next girl to come along.
this is how i thought most guys operate.
but apparently, this is not how the real world works.
apparently, as a guy, the normal thing to do is to tirelessly try to get as many dates as you can with as many hot girls as you can, and you are supposed to go on date after date with different girls, have sex with them if you can, and then out of that bunch you might find a good girl as a girlfriend, or you just keep on finding more girls to date and sleep with.
and I getting it all wrong or what?
is a guy supposed to wait to find the right girl, like a sniper,
or is he supposed to go crazy and try to hit them all, like a machine gunner?
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can you, or should you? I have dated as many as 4 girls at the same time, and who knows how many in a year, but the reality is that once you connect you should start looking at exclusivity. I am not sure about the wait for the right girl approach as, it's hard to know if you have connected until you have spent some time together. And you might be letting a great girl go, while you wait for that "spark". But if it's working for you then all is good.0
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