I went out with this girl I've been talking to lately, and her friends where there but they gave us enough space to talk to each other so I ended up suggesting for us to go out one of these days on our own and she said she always wanted to go to this club and this other place... So I felt positive.
Long story short when we took off I called her 15 min later to see if she arrived home ok and she acted awkward with me on the phone, so I told her ok just wanted to know and ended up the call. I felt so dumb. Did I screwed up?
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She's probably just shy and didn't have her little safety net of female friends to look to for support. Also, she could have been around family or her parents or someone that she didn't feel comfortable with hearing her end of the conversation. That, or she might have felt like, "It's been 15 minutes.. why is he calling?" - even though it's courteous to call her to say thanks for the day and to make sure she got home okay.
I wouldn't read too much in to it. You got a green light to see her again and I would just take that as a good sign. You can always just try texting where she wouldn't have to actually talk out loud in front of people and ask her if you caught her at a bad time earlier. Or just leave it for a day or so and ask her if she still wants to go to one of the places she said she did.
I think people read too much in to things like this when it's so early in the friendship/relationship to know what is going on. If there was any indicator that she didn't want to see you you would have known when you saw her. She wouldn't have agreed to see you again and she wouldn't have wanted to talk to you alone, she would have used her friends as a crutch. I'm pretty sure she was just shy and shocked you were thinking of her enough to call.3