So my girlfriend started to become distant a week before I was coming home. Before that everything was going great. We have been dating for a few months now. I called her out on being distant, and she said she had serious feelings that she jumped into our relationship too fast, and it had nothing to do with me being away. I told her I am more than willing to communicate and take things slow if we have to. She wouldn't text or answer calls. She is working a lot, but she responded to a text I sent and said she is still in love with her ex, who treated her horribly. They broke up a while ago. She has serious feeling for me also. Always telling me how lucky she is to have me and how I'm such a gentleman, how good I am to her, the best lover she ever has had. This is weird to me and something doesn't seem right. So I don't know where we stand in our relationship, dating still or not. I feel if I bother her more, it will push her away. All I want to do is talk with her in person and have an adult conversation about this.
What else do I do besides not contact her?
Will she contact me back?
What is your take on the matter?
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If it were me , and I am being very serious here ; don't initiate any more communication with this girl. Just give her some space and time to evaluate what she has and what she can loose by continuing this cat and mouse game she is playing. She may in fact still love this ex who really knows ; she may even go back to the jerk. But with what ever choice she makes you know that you didn't force her hand thus driving her to her decision. I have no doubt that the not knowing ( no replies or not accepting your calls ) is eating you up , but just ride it out to what ever end. If you choose to contact her just let her know that you are going to back off for now and this decision is hers to make , but you would appreciate her letting you know what it is when she figures it out. Good luck bruh2