I have male friends who are really sweet yet unattractive. I really want a boyfriend but I don't want to date these male friends because of their appearence. Yet, ironically, I feel more attractive guys feel the same about me. Does anyone else begin to feel guilty about being a little superficial? Is it really my fault that I'm not attracted to them?
- No, I'm just not attracted to them.57% (37)59% (41)58% (78)Vote
- Yes, I feel like I'm being superficial.32% (21)22% (15)27% (36)Vote
- No, I date people regardless of appearance.11% (7)19% (13)15% (20)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Somewhat. If they are sweet and great personality-wise, but I just can't get past their looks, then I do feel a little bad. Because they do deserve someone. But on the other hand, it's better to reject them than lead them on. Forcing yourself to have feelings for someone does not work.0