All of the guys I've been speaking to romantically have turned out to be dicks. They pretend their interested in me, we flirt, and then they say they only want me for sex and aren't looking for a relationship or just start randomly ignoring me. When igo on night outs all a guy wants is to pull. Where are the respectable guys who actually want a girlfriend and will at least reply to them by text?
Most Helpful Guy
This may sound mean and that is not my intent but from my experience. Some women attract guys that are jerks because they make it too easy for the guy to be so and also in turn will turn off the good guys.
Most jerks who are after only pleasing themselves will look for a girl that will please them and make it easy for them. If the girl stands her ground in moral purity and he really believes she will continue to do so, most selfish guys will give up and move on.
Most good/moral guys I know want a girl that is good/moral and when a girl is too sexual to fast it will turn them off in the long run, even if they are tempted and perhaps partake in the sexual relationship in the sort term. While the sexual relationship my seem like what they want, it actually cause them to lose interest because they stop thinking of that girl in the same way. Then after losing interest in the girl the look like jerk because they break it off. Although the truth is their intentions where good.
Now the truth is that with all the smut on TV and internet guys are being drawn into unhealthy sexual appetites and you will find few boys that are man enough to resist urges and be respectful men toward women. That is not your fault and just sad but knowing that that is the way things are you may want to think about the vibe you are putting out there by how you dress and the things you say, and how you carry yourself.0
Most Helpful Girl
How the hell I know?0