I've known this guy for about a year. The day we laid eyes on eachother we started flirting. I thought he was really cute. Here's he twist- he's my best friends brother... Gotta be careful I know!
We've talked all summer back and forth daily and, finally, hooked up once. It was awesome! He said he's been waiting so long for it and I had to. 2 weeks later still texting back and forth apparently he has a girlfriend whom he introduced to everyone but me. 3 months later, still flirting all the time, stil no mention of the girlfriend from him to me, we constantly text and bout he deepest of things and everhthjng and anything. He's invited me to his parties and to his beachouse and everything. When usually I get invited from his sister... He made the relationship FB official 2 weeks ago and stil zero mention personally to me- despite the instant replies- as if she isn't there. I'm not sure if the flirting and everhthjng is an act. But I do know that he isn't a player. He asks if I've 'had fun' with any guys or if there anyone in my life, and if there is that he knows them and nothing serious happens. Or he tries to make me feel awkward about my life in general- like his way of teasing me besides the cheeky convos we have.
a few weeks ago, we had this moment when I was saying goodbye to him at the door, and we had the silent moment. We looked into eachothers eyes but didn't say anything. It was like he caught my eye and we just gazed at eachother like we wanted more but we couldn't. It was a moment like in the movies. He leaned in and so did I, until I realized he's taken so we had an abnormally long hug. I like him, I'm pretty sure he likes me- so why is he dating this chick who is exactly like me just shyer and clinger than me?
What does he want from me: what's his plan? #confused
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He has no plan. Maybe in the back of his mind, he thinks you are a potential girl but right now he's just enjoying the scenery.1