Does it make a woman desperate if they are the first to text the guy?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • No it does not. In fact women need to be the first to text a guy reasonably often otherwise the guy can think he is putting in all the effort and the woman is not really interested.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • No, I think guys like it

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What Guys Said 4

  • Not at all! Tells him you are very interested. The girl who is not as interested will not be the first.

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  • The biggest mistake you're making is caring about the texting rules. Follow your instincts.

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    • okay... won't care about that anymore

  • NO, not at all. If anything it shows you care and are confident enough to pursue. I remember when everyone hated double texts and stuff and now I am seeing people claiming they "love double texts" and "long messages", basically, people change their minds ALL THE FRIGGIN TIME.

    Just be you is basically what I am getting at.

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    • lol yeah... I get ya. Thank you very much

  • Nope it doesn't

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What Girls Said 2

  • No, not at all.

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    • ... hmm alright. Thank you

  • I think if you have something meaningful to say then text -eg "had a great time would love to do it again"...
    I usually avoid texts that dont mean anything eg "havent heard from you in a while"...

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    • oh yeah, you're right. Thank you very much for that.

    • No problem.

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