How to hide being desperate?

Soooooo, I'm 21, and have never had a girlfriend... or a date... or a kiss... yeaaaaaaaaaaaah...

So, I'd really like to have a girlfriend, but as you can guess, I'm pretty desperate, which makes me the most repulsive thing on Earth to girls. Is there a way to hide being desperate so they won't notice? or am I pretty much screwed?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You're overthinking it. Take age out of the picture. Be yourself, instead of focusing on you when talking to girls, listen to what they have to say and respond accordingly.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Just don't tell a girl that you are desperate and don't act pushy or clingy. Give a girl you are dating space and don't freak out over small things. Just be chilled. Fake it till you make it man :)

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  • Just act chill about it & don't let being single be such a big deal. :)

    Like desperate guys I've known come to me and a bunch of other girls (seperately) and whine about not having a girlfriend -.-

    Now whining, is annoying af.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Don't worry about being desperate. As long as you show interest in your date as a person, and not just doing it for the sake of having a girlfriend, and not being too clingy, I'd guess being really into her would just come across as you liking her a lot.

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  • Don't think about it too much, go with the flow. Make mistakes and learn from them.

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  • Try to seek out hookers first...

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