When you're in a relationship with somebody, it shouldn't always be about what you want, it should be about what your partner as well. I do a lot for my boyfriend, I don't want to toot my own horn but there are a number of things that I have done for his sake, that I haven't neccessarily wanted to do, for the soul purpose of fulfilling his desires and needs. As soon as I ask for him to do something that I want to do, he doesn't want to do it, because he doesn't like it. Do you think this is unfair?
Relationships are about give and take, right?
What Guys Said 5
It should always be 50/50, meet me half way. Never more or never less either way because that is when questions are raised by the unfavoured side and its the start of the end for a relationship, however, that is not to say the relationship will end.
I do think your situation is unfair, talk to him about this, if he cares about you he will listen and change accordingly, but be willing to hear him out as well0
Yea it can be unfair because we are all different when it comes to a relationship. We have to meet each other needs to keep the relationship happy. If we don't someone will feel left out and want better. If he is selfish or stubborn then it will be hard for him to something when you ask.0
He gives, she takes...1
Well, relations are indeed waaaay more than sex and kisses, or should be more, but i believe that probably, (atleast ) 50 % of all relations is only about sharing the bed.0
Yes you have to give as much as you take, and your partner does the same0
What Girls Said 3
I think it's more about being with someone with whom you share same or similar interests. But even more important is actually staying that way or changing together in the same way. It happens so often that one changes and the other one stays the same, and then ship goes down.0
of course, it's perfectly fair.
relationships requite balance. if that isn't there, forget it.0
Fairness has nothing to do with it. If you don't feel like your boyfriend is good to you, leave him and look for someone better.0