I'm 17 years old, I live in a 1 bedroom apartment in Stockholm. I moved to Stockholm alone when I was 16, so I can go to a better school (lowest acceptance rate in Sweden). I go to an elite gymansium (Swedish high school 16-18).
I like a girl in my class. She's really cute, but I also find her attractive. Anyways, so we've been talking for sometime now about our emotions for different things, and she knows my history and we talk about all sorts off stuff.
But she isn't my girlfriend and I've never kissed or done any sexual activity with anyone before. I haven't even had a girlfriend. But that's because I didn't want to when I was younger.
So she'll be coming over to my apartment via the subway on Friday, at 10 pm, to watch a movie.
I really like her, and I would love to cuddle with her in my sofa, but is that inappropriate? I don't want to turn it into something sexual.
I actually feel quite alone so cuddling would be great. And do you think it will be awkward and she regects me?
I'm pretty sure she like's me.
I know I've started almost every sentence with I.
Ok thanks for all the help.
By the way, I come from a strict family, and they don't want me to have a girlfriend until I'm 20+, that's why I've been holding back all these years. And it doesn't really bother me.
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Okay. This is interesting you can do what I did to my boyfriend, let her come to the room, but let her sit first, then ask her if u can sit down next to her, if she says yes then sit real close to her but give her one hand gap... As The movie progresses move your hand close to hers (but it was to be at a romantic or sad scene no horror it just scares her) then if she holds your hand your good to go but remember sex or kiss is out of bounds... If her hand is not on the sofa move your arms over the sofa to let her know its okay to lean against you, if that doesn't work then try leaning your shoulders against hers1
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