My relationship has hit a wall. We've been together for two years, and we are in what appears to be a perfect relationship. We have never had any problems too serious happen between us, until recently. Being a high school senior preparing to enter the real world, I have entered into a new stage of my life. It's like I have thrown away the immaturity of my previous years, and begun preparing to go live life. I have also lost attraction to my girlfriend. Our relationship is so... boring. All though I still love talking with her, I no longer desire to be with her or even kiss her. I Don't miss her either when she's gone like I used to. I told her about my conflicting emotions, and broke up with her for four weeks, but I decided to try and give the relationship another shot (which was probably a mistake). She accepted my offer and took me back, but I feel like I'm beating a dead horse. I feel like this whole attempt is useless. It doesn't help that I'm still young so I want to live the single life again and date other girls, but I felt like I had made a mistake when I broke up with her. We are taking this attempt to save our relationship one day at a time, and we agreed that if it doesn't work we will not get back together, but we will remain friends. The main reason why I see this relationship as a dead end is because I'm enlisted in the army, and I am attempting to get into westpoint after basic training, while she plans to stay local after highschool. I cannot do long distance relationships. This means that it would be a waste of time to date anyone right now if I break up with her. I plan to break up for good next week, but I need to be 100% sure before I do it.
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End it and find one that isn't a dead end0