So I've been dating a girl for a month and things have been going great. Then yesterday she told me she was feeling down. I called she didn't pick up then I sent her a text and she didn't respong. I ended up falling asleep and when I woke up 4 hours later she texts me about how she feels that I don't care about her at all. the thing is other times when she has felt down I've always been there for her. I've even driven down to see her because she felt sad. This is the one time I hadn't done that. She said this was the time time she really needed me. I know I messed up and I should have been there for her but I just don't understand how one day and one mistake can completely change how you view a person. The worst part is she called her ex and he was at work and made time to call her. I thought she wanted space or not to talk. She said I should have kept trying. that even her asshole of an ex made time for but I didn't. What can I do do to fix this? Am I in the wrong? How can one mistake ruin everything so fast? I just never wanted to hurt her and I feel I did. What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Try to apologize to her and talk to her. But everytime when a person feels sad or depress, they don't to be clingy about it. That is weird, people have to have space in between. If the person if being too close than the relationship will diminished and cause problems. So, it is better to have space even if is the first month of a relationship, because if a girl talks to their partner while he is at work, he will get in trouble or lose his job. So, space has to be establish whether is the first time in a relationship or not, there has to be space on their ownself.0
Most Helpful Guy
Bud, you did nothing wrong, she did. First of all, she has some emotional, stability and confidence issues. She sounds like a bit of a drama queen where everything has to be about her. You did try to call, you did text. There is nothing wrong with making her wait for a few hours. Who the hell can't wait for a few hours? It took her less than four hours to call her ex. Right there is a huge mistake on her part. Who is she dating, you or him? For her to call her ex tells me she still has feelings and still thinks of him. She was way too quick to jump into his arms and he was too quick to see her too! Red flag with that situation big time! She needs to learn some patience.0