So a little background info:
My girlfriend asked me about a month ago on my opinion about facial piercings... I flat out told her I don't like them, it's just my preference
so today she got her nose pierced (just a stud) and I'm torn... I fully understand she has every right to change her body any way she sees fit, having said that part of me is upset that my opinion clearly doesn't matter as much as I thought.
having seen her with it my opinion hasn't changed... I still don't like it at all, it just takes away from the natural beauty of her face. But don't get me wrong... I don't love her any less I'd just prefer her without it.
So am I over reacting? Should I just learn to live with it? Has anyone had a similar situation?
Most Helpful Girl
I mean, it is your preference. I guess she asked to gauge your response to it, because it seems she's been wanting it for a while. I mean, it is her body and her right. But I do understand what you mean.
An ex asked me about tattoos. I told him one or so isn't bad, they can look good if done well. He asked me about full back tats and I told him I'm not as into those. He ended up getting a poorly done full back tattoo... I really didn't like it. The one on his arm however looks really good.0
Most Helpful Guy
Comes Free with Kellogg's Cornflake.
You ain't dating that slice of her in that particular time and place.
You're dating everything of her.
If you wanna... well... shit this is a horrible idea but holding it in is equally bad.
If you wanna... tell her once again maybe and just let it be know and let it to rest?0