i went on a date recently. The guy hadn't seen my picture and we just randomly met at a restaurant. I walked up to him and he waved me over- he seemed ok but was tall and kind of 'stiff' acting like... he wasn't friendly towards me, or acting in any way. We sit down, and it's late so the food is only 'bar food.' I say we should go somewhere else- and we both agree to leave. I suggested an open restaurant where they were serving food for sure. He kept saying he wanted to go to this 'restaurant/club' which i was sure probably wasn't going to have food. we go there- first they say they have food then we sit down and they say.. again its only bar food. We order like 2 flatbreads and chicken wings. The guy still wasn't friendly towards me- just kind of 'stiff' and standoffish. Then i asked him his job and he said he's a doctor. I was impressed and nice and asking him questions.
the food came, and two orders of wings came, the server said it was one, but u know thats not true. the flatbreads came. the guy took one bite and said.. he didn't like it, then had it sent back after a few minutes. My flatbread came and i didn't mind it but, i felt almost like i should say i dont like it since it wasn't great. I said i didn't love it so then he just told them to take it back too. So now i'm stuck with only wings and im hungry. At the end, he said in a sarcastic condescending way "sorrry" but he was being a jerk.. as if "ha-ha i screwed u." he didn't care that I was hungry still, and he seemed to be trying hard to get the bill down to nothing. Then he told them to take the 2nd plate of wings off since they charged him for it. Yes he was right but the jerk sent TWO flatbreads back and i was going to maybe munch on one. I think the total was like 15.00. he said "sorrrrry" again in a rude tone as if he was mocking me. then he said "well least u have ur drink for the drive home." Then in the end, he again in a condescending way said goodbye. I also had driven an hour to his town
Most Helpful Guy
Well, always carry your own money even if someone else is treating you, Just In Case.
And probably the best thing you could had done, when you figured out he was being a jerk was to eat the flatbread instead of sending it back and that too slowly. Well, you weren't gonna see him again for that attitude, so why not lighten his pocket a bit.
Also, I see how you went ragerolling against men after this post. Just saying, not good at all, very immature.1
Most Helpful Girl
i read other opinions..