He likes me, I like him.. But lately things has been a bit weird and I want to gain back his attention. How can I make him jealous when I only see him at work and we don't text anymore?
I'm not looking to play games or anything... just make him a little jealous in a subtle way. It worked before. I wasn't even trying to make him jealous but another guy at work started talking to me so he got jealous. But I'm not talking to the other guy anymore and I've already told "my guy" that I don't like that other guy in any way.
Do you think he would get jealous if I asked my friend (a girl) if she wants to go out this weekend or something? Because there are other guys at the club... Or if I tell her that I ran into an ex flirt (when my crush can hear it) ?
Haha, this is such a childish question but I want to look unattainable, yet make him want me more.
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I would suggest never try to make a guy jealous by any means whatsoever, especially using another guy, well since you said you are not doing that, it's good. Okay I am just being honest here, you said you are not looking to play any sort of games but from what I have read and observed you are still trying to make him jealous, the only difference is you are following a different approach, a different method of making a guy jealous, so you are playing a sort of a game, a different type of a game. You mentioned that he got jealous when you spoke to the other guy, so you see he is already jealous on the inside so why try to make him more jealous? why are you trying to test him?
To be honest with you making a guy jealous is not worth it, you may think you are posting a challenge to him, you may think that he will want you more and more, okay I agree that can happen but what about the negative side of it, what if he completely starts ignoring you after this behaviour?, what if he starts behaving like you don't exist?, what if your move backfires on you? have you thought about all this? You must understand that men and women think differently and making a guy jealous or trying to make a guy jealous is not a joke, it's a very big risk you are taking and let me tell you chances of it getting backfired on you are very high?
You do have a small chance of success but then do you really want to take a big risk for a small chance or success? you need to ask yourself that question. What I would suggest please don't try to make him jealous, it doesn't matter which way you follow and if you do that you will putting a doubt in his mind, if you are having a problem with him, if you are doubtful of the interest he has in you then be honest, go up to him arrange a meeting between yourself and talk it out like adults, if he doesn't care or show interest then just forget about it, I am sure there are other guys around.
That would be my suggestion, yes it's just a suggestion at the end of the day decision is completely yours. If you have decided you are going to make him jealous then be prepared for the negative outcomes as well, don't be surprised later on.0