Think about it-just 20 years ago, people didn't even use cellphones. I'm dating a guy who barely texts me but when we're in person he's awesome. We have been away from each other for the summer so I get aggravated when he doesn't text me for a while and it makes me feel like he's lost interest but then I'm like what would we have done 30 years ago? Just called each other once in a while? I don't know I think people get too into texting being a fundamental part of a relationship including myself lol do you agree?
Most Helpful Guy
Texting is annoying. The fact that the technology exists doesn't mean we HAVE to use it... Don't count on me to text you every 5 minutes. Let's keep something to tell each other once I am back home...4
Most Helpful Girl
I think to a degree it is. I mean, I don't think you have to text constantly, but I do with my best friend. We are talking again and even though I'm not the happiest with him, we still talk for hours just texting each other each day if we aren't like really busy where it's basically impossible to have time to text each other. I think it is important because you should keep in contact with each other a couple times throughout the week. I don't want to date someone who will basically forget about me the whole week until we see each other next. If not texting, then at least a phone call or Skype or something. My best friend and I are always in contact (well not for 2 months, but we are again) and if we weren't in contact for a long time I would start to worry that I've lost him. It's hard not talking to him for long periods of time. I drives me insane actually. I just think a few times a week in contact would be nice when dating someone.1