Hi everyone, my parents are really strict and I dont know what to do anymore. I'm 19, my boyfriend's 21, and we've been together for eight months now. Our relationship can't be any more serious. We already talked about getting married after we finish school in about 8 years.. Today, my boyfriend brought up the idea that we should at least go on a three day vacation every summer (alone) and I agreed to it. However my parents dont approve (yelled at me).. They think I should be married before going on vacation and sleeping over with him. But the thing is, they know I've already went to second base with him so what's the big deal?
My parents won't allow me to go on vacation with my boyfriend?
What Guys Said 3
Are they paying for school? Once you are completely on your own, you can ignore them. But until then...0
What Girls Said 4
Well technically ur an adult, u can do what u want... But if they r taking care of u u should respect their wishes.0
Are you living on your own or with your parents? are you religious? strict parents can be tough, but maybe if you tell them you really want their trust in you, tell them exactly what the plans are etc, they will approve? Do they know and like your boyfriend? You could always tell them you're staying over at a friends, but I wouldn't do that. Try to tell them how serious you guys are!0
If you're living under their roof then you still have to go by their rules😕0
You're an adult. Their opinion is irrevelant.0