Would you stay home no matter what he/she said even if he/she asked you to still go out, or would you go out?
- Stay home with him/herVote A
- Go outVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Ok I understand, but you should stop playing games. The fact is that if you told him it was okay -you can't be mad when he does...you pretty much set him up. That's like him telling you its okay to cheat on him and when you actually go through with what he told you to do then he gets mad. The fact is that, all you want is for him to show you as much consideration as you would show him if the shoe were on the other foot. Unfortunately, that's not something everybody has. The way to point this out to him isn't by setting traps or making him feel bad when he doesn't get that you don't really mean what you say---after all, its not like he can mind read. You pretty much have to live by example. When he's sick, stay home- take care of him...eventually regardless of the time or day, holiday or not he will get that if you care enough about him to make certain that he's ok instead of going out...he will want to do the same when you're sick.1