so my boyfriend is 41 and im 18 everyone thinks he is using me but he really loves me and i love him. He treats me like a lady unlike my last boyfriend who abused me. my parents dont know yet how should i tell them cause i know they are gonna freak.
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I don't want you to take this the wrong way but this is wrong. This is not appropriate behavior for a man of 41. Years old. Of course they'll freak he's old enough to be your father. There is no way if telling them. But I am afraid for your safety. A man his age should know better. You (not trying to be rude or insulting) are a baby yourself. I am not much older than you. And I understand that you had a rough relationship before. But that is not acceptable. And he is taking advantage of you. Not physically but a man his age should be capable to find someone his own age. Not a young girl as yourself. You still don't know yourself. I still have a lot to learn about myself and I'm 22. Please take into consideration. And please don't be offended.1
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