Yesterday there was a guy in the bus who was staring at me. Once I got out of bus he run out of the bus and followed me. He told me that he found me very pretty and he asked me out but I kind of freaked out and rejected him. He was well dressed, descent looking and very politide. He insisted but I turned him down because I felt it was awkward and perhaps dangerous? Now I can't stop thinking about this, what if I missed a good opportunity?
- Yes it was very immatureVote A
- No it's normal to get freaked out because he's a strangerVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Sketchy. As. Fuck.
Good move on turning him down. If you're not swooned, he doesn't deserve a date just for asking you out out of the blue like that. Even if you were swooned, that comes off as pretty creepy that someone would ask for such a personal meeting without so much as attempting to strike up a conversation with you first.
And LOL at the guys voting you were immature!1
Most Helpful Girl
I think you were very wise, mature and responsible to reject him. I would find it very unnerving if a guy approached me in that way. It would have been naive to have said , " yes" to him. So don't feel guilty about safeguarding yourself. Trust needs to be earned.. not given away freely. 💛🌷xx1