So there's this very attractive girl in one of my college courses, we just had the first day so she's knows me just from class introduction basically and I'm very intersted in her, and I don't want this to be 'oh you don't know her yet' true I don't but the first step to attraction is looks and that's a must, if she turns out to be a bitch I'll call it off, but I'm hoping she's not. Anyway I can't stand how around the point some people are about this and want to know, girls, if a guy you hardly knew said this to you, what would you do?;
"hey sorry for being straightforward, but I think you're very beautiful and was wondering if I could get to know you better or get your phone number?"
basically something to that affect I'd like to know if it would creep you out, even if you weren't attracted to the guy and said no would it make you think less of him? Or be weirded out?
I think that's fine what you want to say, and wouldn't be weirded out
That's a little too straighforward
And you are? I'm a GirlGuys can not vote on this poll
I would not be comfortable if you did this to me. I appreciate the effort. But sometimes approaching that point is exciting too. And when you try to reach her; that is another effort which deserves another appreciation. Yes you do not know her and it is mystery. So give yourself and her little time. Be a friend. A really friend. See if you like her as a friend at first. You are coming so strong. You are drawing the lines so fast. 'Look you are so beautiful. You should be my gf?' This does not make any sense.
insted of hitting on her looks say you might be a awesome study buddy, or just something else more personal like you think something she's wearing is cool... dont just genralize.. or make it seem like its not just her looks maybe? thatd annoy me and make me happy but annoyed that you are intrested because of my looks. good luck its awesome to be bold :)