So my boyfriend and I were talking and we both told each other that we were falling in love with each other. We've been together for 5 months but we haven't said "i love you"... he has been hurt before but maybe he just wants to take his time? What do you guys think? Take things slow?
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This whole "take things slow" concept makes no sense to me. Slow means you figure out how you feel over 10 dates... not 5 months!
Basically it's your life... if you're waiting for him to decide when it's okay for YOU to tell him how YOU really feel then that's a sad situation.
If you're not comfortable being vulnerable and honest with this guy after 5 months then you're probably not really dating... you're probably just spending time together, or just having a lot of sex. That's not real intimacy. Intimacy includes sharing secrets and feelings and being vulnerable.
Besides... does it matter how he feels? If he treats you the way you want to be treated, and he's exclusive with you... then it doesn't matter how he feels. It only matters how YOU FEEL.
And you don't even need to tell him at all. Just show him. By being loving and sweet and caring and awesome. That's what real love is anyways... not wasted words that require reciprocation.
Every relationship is different. but when it comes to "I love you" its bound to happen if you both feel that way. wait a time if he still doesn't say it then say it and test the waters and gain his trust and show him you aren't there to make him miserable but to make him smile and have the amazing feeling of love0
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