This girl i like keeps telling me that she wants me to be with her, and we kiss, and spend the night together. She refuses to have sex with me. She said that we aren't together. Were just hanging out, and she doesn't want to jump into another relationship so quick. Whats this mean?
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Wow, a nice example of having your cake and eating it too.
She's doing just enough to keep you there - hugging, kissing, telling her friends, etc. which also denies you to any other girl.
It's awful feeling emotionally vulnerable when you split up with someone and there are no more hugs, kisses, feeling special to someone, sharing things with that certain someone.
Personally I am not sure that people will wait when something is right - if you truly feel it, you truly feel it. Sometimes you have to break eggs to make an omelette. In my mind she's using you to help bridge the gap between the past and the future because deep down she's not sure what she wants. Will the ex come back or will I have to move on and at least there is someone there. I am not saying she doesn't care about you or give a damn about your feelings but she's using you in my opinion.0