Well I have a really big problem; I have liked a guy for so many years, and I've known him since I was about 9. It just so happens that the guy I like is my closest friends cousin. My friend hates that He likes me, bc it's her family and she thinks it's weird, and if she ever found out that I even text him, she would be mad and not talk to me for a long time. I really like him, but I'm also so afraid to do anything given the circumstances. What do I do? Do I choose the boy or my best friend? I mean I know there are a lot of guys out there and not many friends like her. that's why I don't want to do anything.
If she can't support who you like then she's no friend. She might not like any guy you date because she'll feel rejected by you. That's just a part of growing up. I'd tell the one you like most you like him