Of course not! She's a virgin. I would expect her to be nervous. I'm not thinking about myself. I would put all the focus on her and try and make it a good first experience because it's new to her. It takes time to learn. I'd be so happy we got to have sex. It's special to be a girls first
That's beyond stupid to base the relationship off the first time you have sex. People who are not virgins and have sex with each other for the first time won't be great either. It takes time to learn your partners likes and dislikes. The key to being good is just learning to know what your SO likes and to do that for them. Not being a virgin doesn't give you the ability to know what they like without them telling you.
if you're inexperienced, just laying there and getting penetrated is still a good experience for the guy.. how would it suck though, elaborate on that. do you cry uncontrollably.. do you find that it hurts and can't do it
I mean, if she's a virgin and you knew it, it's not like you're going to be able to know each other's bodies within the first time. It takes time and effort (And more than one time having sex) to get to know what you and your partner enjoy and are comfortable with.