When I saw this video I found it interesting and I was wondering if you had the chance would you get back with a cheating ex? and would you want to know why they cheated on you? personally this happened to me recently a cheater ex talk to me in June we made up (I didn't get back with him when I meant made up I meant clearing up the issues between us). I'm fine with him now he ask if we could had a second chance I said no personally I feel like he already prove to me that he not worth it if that makes sense. Answer the poll and explain in the comment section below your answer and why.
Yea but I wouldn't stay with them. Its sad when people cheat but I don't take it as most people take it. I take it as an opportunity to work on myself and see where I went wrong and sometimes it's not your fault and sometimes the cheating just helps put an end to a relationship that has no future anyway. I've been cheated on once and I don't look back at the woman as evil, she was growing and so was I, we never would have worked out looking back at it now.
I'm sorry, I can't. If they cheated on me, whether it's a week, 4 years, I don't care, it means they aren't interest e in me like I thought they would be and its just heartbreaking. Once they break your heart, you try hard to recover. If I go back, he will break my heart again which will be even harder to recover because he already broken my trust, yet he still did again. If he did it once, too bad, he shouldn't have done it in the first place. If my trust is broken, I will not trust them again, I can't, I have to move on.
I don't know that's hard. Depends on why really. Some reasons are far more forgivable than others
I have been cheated on by every female I have ever been with. I on the other hand have never cheated and find it a deplorable act. In the past I did not give second chances and believe a person who makes a choice to do something deplorable is a deplorable person and therefore I refuse to have in my life.
I believe that all females cheat because attention is more important than anything else, and males cheat because sex is more important than anything for them.
So Assuming the worst in people, I expected my partner to cheat. (I wouldn't say this to them but I didn't get surprised when they did). I told myself that I will know I met the right person when I am willing to forgive them when they eventually cheat. Which brings us to my wife, who did as expected and is the ONLY female I didn't cut loose after doing the deplorable act against me. WHY... I don't really know. I forgave and moved on, we now have two beautiful kids so I am glad I did forgive. But it is always there in my mind.
Why is it that so many women think men are monogamous? Men can and do have a wife or steady girlfriend while having multiple relationships on the side. (women are not monogamous either, they just fool themselves better)
The correct approach is to set the rules: 1. No hookers, 2. None of my sisters, whatever. Then accept the rules. Those women who are open minded pick the girlfriends for their husbands and ask her to join them in bed together.
I don't think you can take back someone who'd already cheated on you and admitted to being interested in other people while with you. To me that says they don't value you as a person and more importantly don't respect you. Respect is vital in any relationship. So no, no second chances.
My ex recently contacted me to talk about everything and it was kind of good, but mainly for him because he had all the problems/questions. It was nice seeing how he'd changed and grown up though. He even offered to meet up but I thought that was a bit much seeing as he's engaged.
I don't think I could do this with my last ex, it would hurt too much and I don't think I want to know the answers. It would be like being stabbed in the heart repeatedly. I couldn't cope.
The video wouldn't play for me but I'll still answer your question-----------------------------------------> Personally I wouldn't care to clear anything up. You cheat, we're done. I don't wonna hear excuses or your reason why. We're just... over, done. A hoe is a hoe and I won't 'forgive' him but just because I won't forgive doesn't mean I'm bitter or thinking about him. I just don't care at all. I'll move on because respect means A LOT to me and obviously he doesn't respect me