So this girl and I have been texting for a few weeks (and chatted online for about the same before exchanging numbers).
Its become clear that we both really like each other, we have shared personal things about each other, we text almost every day, good night/morning messages/kisses etc
We have yet to meet in person which has become slightly frustrating for me having asked a few times when she is free because she works a lot. She did suggest a time for us once but the weather turned bad so she cancelled which is fair enough.
She now asked me if I've had a relationship (which I haven't) as I've had social anxiety for years (which she knows and was totally fine about).
So what I want to know is is she trying to gauge whether or not I'm b/f material by my past relationship experience. Why would she ask that? If it helps she is a year older than me and I think from her profile she has had a relationship before. She is also very shy and doesn't speak much English so maybe she's nervous about meeting me.
What do you gagers reckon? Is she serious about me?
Sorry about the long details, any comments very much appreciated!!!
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"She just wants someone to chat with because she's fairly new to the country and wants a friend"
^ I highly doubt it's that one; she wouldn't have asked about your past dating experience if she was only interested in being your friend.
Past dating experience is a very common dating topic, so don't overthink her intentions too much. She probably just asked out of curiosity. People like to ask questions like the one she asked to learn more about the person they're getting to know and potentially getting serious with.
If she had asked, "How long ago was your last relationship?" and you said something like, "It ended a couple months ago," (let's just say this is true for the sake of this scenario) then she may become hesitant since you'd be fresh out of a relationship. Questions like this are important!1