I just feel very bitter and depressed about it but I know no one up here cares or is able to help me. Now I know some of you will say that a relationship isn't the most important thing or it will come in time but I don't believe that. My life is pathetic
You're 23 get in a position to where you are ready for a serious relationship then get on a dating site or go out. Most people aren't happy spending life alone but that said most people who are truly ready for a committed relationship can find one. Sometimes people just think they are ready when they are not.
The more you care about not having somebody the more you'll settle for something less, or someone who isn't compatible with you. And who wants that? I prefer to be alone unless I find someone I really like. And finding that person is harder or less likely when you're seeing someone else. So do I think you should try and stop caring? Actually yes.
Well if its making u unhappy, then of course u should care... and maybe do some things that might change ur outcome. Maybe do things a little different and c if u get more postivie responses from the ladies :)