Since we know that most people will give an attractive person a chance, would you give an unattractive person a chance as well? I would understand if some of y'all are picky/shallow. i believe everyone whether attractive or unattractive has the right to pick and choose whomever they want and that people shouldn't get mad that they didn't get chosen but at the same time the other person should not be mean about.
I don't know if I'm approachable but since no one really approached me so far it seems like I'm scary or something
And please keep in mind that there's a huge difference between the words "good looking" and "attractive" with the last being mainly subjective. What's attractive to me might not be attractive to you and vice versa. And quite frankly; no, I wouldn't date a person I'm not (physically & mentally) attracted to because I don't see the sense in that other than that I would most likely end up hurting that persons feelings if they ever find out.
A girl wouldn't need to be more than average, particularly in the face to be given a chance by me. On the body I'd probably be a bit more demanding, she couldn't be fat or have bad posture for example. I had a lot of good looking women after me most of the time so I had very little incentive not to be choosy.
Honestly, I give everyone a chance. I don't judge by looks, personality, or their socioecomical class. But I would say I am approachable, but others tell me I intimidate them, like such as; a boy came up to me and complimented my looks, and I said thanks, and he says, "You know, you make us guys feel bad. We want to date you, but we feel like we aren't good enough for someone like you." And that really put me into deep thinking for days. Like, my friends are suprised at the guys I like. I always go for the shy, and cute ones, which are my preference. But in general, I will give everyone a chance because I know how they feel when not 'accepted'.
I think I'm a pretty approachable person; I don't choose people by their appearances most of the time, but I can still see someone and think they're extremely attractive. But thinking how attractive a stranger is to me doesn't change whether or not I'm attracted to them. I have to talk to someone first in order to know whether or not I should give them a chance.