This girl awlays flirted with me, she laughedm smiled, stared at me, touched me randomly, initiates convo. So i told her i like her and she has a boyfriend. She also said im 'not sure' if i like you more than a friend. I've taken it hard and tbh i find myself ignoring her now, our friendship is ruined. But could she actually be 'unsure'? or is she letting me down nicely? maybe she did like me and someone else got there and she likes him more, anyway what should i do? maybe she was just playing me?
Most Helpful Girl
"I'm not sure..."
I'm not convinced by that line.
People are usually sure of their feelings.
She doesn't know how to let you down... so she tried to soften her words so they don't offer you a blow. (She failed in that aspect because you took it hard regardless).
Even if she DID like you... she's with another guy.
Since, she hasn't left him for you... what did you expect to become out of your relationship?
She enjoys the flirtation aspect with you... but she would not pursue anything further because she's with another guy.
Nothing could come out of your relationship as long as she's with someone else.
Did you really want to be second to someone else?
Even if she shared mutual feelings for you... she wouldn't make you her priority because someone else is.
You seem like a great guy.
You can be in less complicated situations if you go after women that are attainable.
Going after a woman that is off limits will only hurt you (as you can see).
I think you accept the rejection and move on from it.
You'll eventually find a girl who is on the page as you (relationship wise).0
Most Helpful Guy
she wants you but has a boyfriend make her want you more
and make a move0