Like if I like a guy but he isn't putting in as much effort as I want sometimes I'll give him less attention and see if he'll chase me more and show me he really wants me-but almost no guys do this! What's up with guys today?
Because why chase when you can get a girl way? It's so easy to meet girls nowadays, that there's no point on wasting your time chasing a girl you don't know for sure that she likes you, and when you don't give him attention, what he thinks is "well, she may not be interested". Therefore you move on to the next girl, cause there's always another girl, and there's always a girl that will give it to you easier, so why chase? There's no point in chasing.
One side effect of equality between the sexes is girls chase after guys more often than they used to. So guys don't have to do that much chasing, especially if they have an easy time getting with women.
Now adays it more socially acceptable to not to get married,
You live in a different world now. Any guy worth anything will not chase. Girls wanted everything. Guys have finally had enough of the crap. It's hilarious girls thought they could have it all. Sorry girls you loose. Guess it's time to step up to the plate and offer more than just looks. Quality men will not chase, girls will have to take risks in the dating world, pay for their own shit, fix their own car and will now be judged by personality and achievement.