I don't know why but I've never tried asking a girl out. I just never feel like I'm good enough. I tell myself I'll get a girlfriend once I get better skin, get ripped, get a better job, better teeth, better this and better that. I mean there's no end to it. I'm turning 27 soon and that mentality is still with me. People say they see nothing wrong with me but I look at myself and see someone sickly looking, unhealthy, too skinny, unattractive, unworthy. Is it all in my head?
Most Helpful Girl
It is in your head. There is a woman out there just waiting to "click" with you. Let me tell you something. As women, we are socially expected to let the guy make the first move. Therefore, we often wait for the guy to come to us. Some men are turned off by women who make the first move but women are positively floored when they are asked out. I bet that at least somewhere along the way, a woman was (or is) waiting for you to make the first move. So make the first move!
I know personally, I find it to be a big turn on to be asked out. Find someone you like, get to know her, and take a leap of faith.0
Most Helpful Guy
"People say they see nothing wrong with me, but I look at myself and see someone sickly looking, unhealthy, too skinny, unattractive, unworthy. Is it all in my head?" Yup, it's all in your head + there are plenty of girls with the exact same mindset as you I'm guessing ^_^. So 1st you need to find those girls ( they aren't hard to find) and then take it from there. Since most girls are tired of sitting home alone while thinking "I'll never get a man" so once 1 shows up (the she likes)... it's a good chance that she'll be your girl if you have enough balls "to put her claims on here as I like to call it" ^_^.
Most girls will take it as a sign of flirting + won't reject your offer since like I've said before they wanna end up being 70 and alone with 50+ house cats who look like this i1127.photobucket.com/.../...-85f0409c20dd.jpg.png