I have a colleague, we like each other, but due to some concerns (he will leave the country in December), he doesn't wants to commit to a relationship now and be sad later when he leaves. But I am tried to convince him, he seemed firm, I was thinking also maybe he didn't like/love me enough. If I write a letter to him now everyday and pass the letters to him on the day he leaves, how do you think he will feel? Will he reads those letters?
I think the questions might sound a bit misleading. What I meant was to give him all the letters on the day he left and not 1 everyday.
That's kinda creepy, stalkerish. One letter before he goes is sufficient. Then while he is gone an occasional light letter from time to time might be appreciated. A link back to home is always nice as long as its not too heavy in the subject material.
I think a letter everyday would be a little too much especially because your not in a relationship with him. You don't want him to get annoyed with the constant letters and having to read them everyday. What I would do would be to write a bunch of letters before he leaves and give them all to him the day he takes off. Letters like "open when its raining" or "open when you need someone to talk to"... that way you arnt constantly contacting him and giving him an obsessive vibe but instead your keeping yourself in the back of his mind every now and then when he opens the next one. He also keeps in mind that the letters were written before he left and he could get a sense of regret when he reads them and think he may have made the wrong choice and my be unable to get you back in the future... which is good. Make him worry a little bit.