I'm a freshman in college and I met this guy about 5 days ago. He told me he wanted to take things slower so that we could get to know each-other before we get serious. But it feels like the opposite has happened. He's really clingy and I feel like he likes me more than I like him. Whenever he sees another guy look at me, he holds my hand or puts his around me to let the guy know I'm his.. even though Im not. So in your opinion, would you rather be way too into someone or have them be way too into you?
For me it's pretty obvious. I choose for someone to be way too into me. I don't mind attention, clinginess, neediness. And from my experiences, being way too into someone when they don't feel the same way brings nothing but EXCRUCIATING PAIN, can't deal with that shit.
Well I would never do what he does. He is telling you something with words but the opposite in his body language. He doesn't realize that these are quite noticeable. This is a very sensitive side in the process of an acquaintance and if too much is given especially in the beginning of a relationship then all will start to sound suspicious, desperate and perhaps, the sign of too much jealousy.
If he'll keep doing that I have a feeling he'll lose you and I'm not a pessimistic person.
When I really want to be with a guy I have no problem when he seems more into me than I'm into him. But if I was not even sure whether I want to have a relationship, that would be just annoying. That's why I voted "I'd rather be...".
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