so i moved about a month ago to a big city and im currently going to uni. I have made friends, im applying to a job im pretty sure im going to get, my subjects are interesting, i got my own apartment and im social and i go out in the weekends.
But to be honest I thought meetings guys would be easier for me after i moved. Im putting myself out htere for once by going out way more then used to and being social and talkative with everyone i meet. I also go to the gym a lot and i signed up as an volunteer-- But meetings guys im interested in, and that are interested in me seems to be impossible. I felt and still feel totally ignored by guys.. the only guys that dont ignor me are guys i talk to and my friends..
I decided to join a dating app to increase my chances of meeting someone, but its not going too well and the one date i had planned with didn't show up.. or he used ages to come so i decided i dont have time for him. I dont know what to do anymore.. the only guy that i obvious likes me is a guy i work as a volunteer with and there is not a bone in my body thats attracted to him..
Anyway, any advice? i dont know what to do at this point.. i mean i have done all the things i thought i needed to do to meet a guy: i got close guy friends, i meet a lot of new people, im a part of an social group etc.
Most Helpful Guy
What kind of guy do you want to attract?
It seems to me you are rushing too much.0
Most Helpful Girl
a month isn't really enough time to be worrying already. And certainly no need to be rushing things. In fact, you already have build yourself a social circle. Most people take longer than a month to even find 1 friend...
Online dating can be a lot of fun, and in your case a blessing, because if you go on dates in a new city you will meet new places everytime automatically, plus get to know the insider tips you would normally take years to learn.
Just don't take those dates too seriously.
Maybe your online profile isn't good and needs some improvement. It could be little things that are off putting.
In the meantime, just keep on doing what you do and soon enough you'll meet someone interesting.0