I always see on here or my friends talking about how this guy has a crush on here or this guy has a huge crush on this girl, but why can I NEVER seem to find a guy who is actually really crushing on me? :'( I'm not ugly... am I the only one here?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe my myTake will help: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a21904-why-guys-aren-t-approaching-you0
Most Helpful Girl
You know when you look really hard for something and you can't find it? And then one day it's right there under your nose, when you least expect it. I think it's the same way with relationships, you find someone when you least expect it.
I had been dating a guy that treated me badly, I just wanted closure and to stand up for myself so we decided to talk. I didn't want to just wait for that to happen so the night before the talk my friends convinced me I should join them at a bar. And so I did, and that's where I met my fiancé.
I literally never noticed when guys checked me out or when they flirted with me, after I moved to another city several guys contacted me from my hometown, saying they had been crushing on me for years but didn't dare to say anything. So don't beat yourself up, someone might very well be drooling from afar ;)1