I found myself falling into that spiral a couple years ago and it's not a good thing. It starts as a glass of wine a night.. then two... then half a bottle... then a bottle... and next thing you know you can't remember the last time you went to bed sober. Don't fall into that kind of lifestyle. Get it under control now so that you can continue living a normal life and being able to have a few drinks here and there with friends, instead of having to quit altogether because you can't control it!!!
I realized that I was developing a problem and thankfully I caught it early enough. I don't drink very much anymore, but I am glad that I'm capable now of just having a few drinks every so often socially.
that is called alcoholism... so I would be very weary about getting into a relationship like that. Alcoholism if not addressed is a slippery slope that will consume one's life and make relationships hard if not impossible to maintain
If I really cared for the person I would work hard to try and get them to seek help but I probably wouldn't date them seriously until they were working to clean up the habit
No, that would be an indicator of other problems, not to mention drunk people are not as fun as they think and your liver is going to get shot real fast drinking a bottle before bed with any kind of frequency.
if we could split it but then again that only be 4 nights a week tops. Been a year since I'm past my get drunk before bed phase. I was in a dark and lonely place. Still lonely don't need alcohol to compound that feeling
I had a roommate (male) in college to drank two bottles of wine then passed out at his computer with his pants around his ankles, face down on the keyboard, with anime porn on the screen. He was a nut job but regardless wine is some sneaky stuff; it'll wreck you real quick.
But back to the question at hand; if it was a one off or every now and then thing sure. If it was every night then it may get annoying real quick.
A whole bottle? Whoa!!! I can understand a few glasses, but a whole bottle? Does she do this every night? I might still date her, but she seems to have an alcohol problem. I'd get her some help so that she's still there.
i drink a 12 pack before bed but i wouldn't consider myself an alcholic because you need to drink 20 drinks a day to be one so i would have no problem dating a girl who drank a bottle of wine before bed
Depends why they drink it... I wouldn't be totally put off but if they were just doing it because they were depressed or an alcoholic I don't know if I'd want to date them as much. Seems a bit excessive, no need to do that every night.
A whole bottle of wine? That sounds like a serious problem and likely is not healthy for your body or your mind. It sounds like this person would need to sort some stuff out before we could consider being together. A glass or two is one thing, but a whole bottle? No way.
I don't think drinking is bad unless it leads to other problems. So it would depend on how that affected the person.
It seems though like people overestimate the effects of a bottle of wine. A regular-sized bottle is just four or five glasses. I serve that many drinks to plenty of customers who still act totally normal and respectful. Nobody should drink that much before they drive or work and it's probably a bit much to drink every day, but it won't cause any problems for most people to drink that much a couple nights a week.